June 30, 2010 Month’s End

June 30th, 2010

Rather interesting how at month’s end, we look back to see what occured of those things which we anticipated at the beginning!

Once again, this month has passed with little involvement from me!  I feel as though I had simply climbed up on  a limb and watched the days fly by!

Not that I really mind if time flies, however I at least want to be cognicent of the fact that it is flying!

Speaking of flying, I am constantly after Rick to keep at the books to get his ground studies completed.   I thought how efficient it would be, were we to fly from Wyomings nearest airport, to La Pine, estimated 3 hours time, as opposed to the 14 hours by road travel.  Makes me sort of lonesome for the big open skies.  Who am I kidding, I am in Wyoming, I want to tell you that whoevver coined the phrase of Big Sky for Montana, should have included Wyoming in that phrase.

I love the desert however and the many different scenaries this land has.

I really enjoyed our two days in Cody, beautiful weather, walking our approximately four mile walks and back to swim off the effects of our warm weather walks!

This is a nice land, I am still an Oregonian to the core, however, I truly enjoy the traveling around to other areas.

I will be glad when one of our seven children find themselves relocated to Hawaii or Florida, we will definitely have to check out their homesteads for a few weeks. 

Certainly enjoyed our Florida trip this year, thank you Timi and Michael, Naples and Fort Myers were very enjoyable.

Back to the keys of my beyboard, however, I have been remiss in concentrating on where I intend to focus my interests, need to stay in the thinking mode, this said, off  to write.

Cheryl G Burke

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May 2010 A Different Month in Life

May 31st, 2010

An interesting month to say the least, enjoying the Grands of course, and time with Robert, way overdue.  These people have every right to be called ranchers, as they do all that the ranchers do, short of delivering calves on the ice, Randy! 

 
The chicks are now almost a month old, Natalie is ever the little Mother.
 
The horses are still porting the kiddos around and up the trails to the lakes, which this weekend, everyone and their dogs, are here in the country to enjoy! 
 
Super lakes in this area, of course, we are keeping busy treking up trails and around the 3/4 mile perimeter lane, with myself comfortably plunked upon the seat of a bycicle as my little runner jogs around the road!!!! (So what if at 59 I still think I will get the —inner me—, back!  Although I must admit, the —inner me– has appeared lately a bit further from the surface of my skin!  (Some might call it… gaining weight!) I much prefer to call it, still searching for my inner self, I know it is still in there, just hiding behind more skin and chubbies.
 
 
Hoping this little update catches you with a smile on your face, after all, isn’t that what we are all here for?  Joy, peace and love!  Praying for any and all who catch these little ditties, have a super Blessed Day!
 
Cheryl G Burke
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Works April 23, 2010 When Baby Wants Held and You Are Already Holding the Two Year Old

April 23rd, 2010
 
What happens when you let yourself go too far from keeping control of your thoughts?  If you’re a Mom who has toddlers, you may just find yourself needing to ask forgiveness more often than you would like to admit.  Perhaps you, like so many other Moms, need to take advantage of the options before you, while there is still time.
 
Lets put out a scenario that can happen strictly by accident to any Mom, first the day is slipping away from you and you still have a jillion things on your to do list for the day. The Baby starts fussing again, after you have just changed him, run back over to patch up the two year old’s knee, sit her on your lap and console her tears away, how to keep up with both of them is the question.
 
There are those times in which no amount of planning can account for!  However, much of life can be tempered with proper planning and forecasting of what is to come. 
 
When we had our first child, we experienced the greatest changes of our lives, after that, with the insuing six that followed, life was pretty much just routine during the baby years, with the exception of those everyday unexpected challenges that occured for us day in and day out.
 
Our babies arrived in a period of eleven years, seven at the rate of one just about every one and one half years apart. Great fun to have one still in diapers as the other is born, keeps you on your toes keeping up.
 
Looking back over some forty years of being a Mom, I wonder sometimes at my life.  These years are great years, years that have, helped shape if not, shpaed, my life for who I have become.  Oh, I know, I have made choices, choices that really are the reason I am who I am, but without babies, I think I could have been a much more self centered person than I am.  I believe I would have lost touch with what it means to share, share your milkshake,share your chair, share everything you eat,share your time, share your joy, share your love, share yourheart!  No, definitely I learned a lot by having children over my many years of being alive.
 
Challenges, however large or small, prove to be learning experiences for us, if we choose to use the experience we have gained as beneficial, we can cut down the losses we may otherwise incur from any given challenge.
 
Take the first trip after baby is old enough to go about, either you overpack and leave the bag in the prepared mode, until baby has outgrown the sizes of the outfits you prepared, or, you forget to take all of the necessities, aw-oh!
 
That lesson is one that rarely will you duplicate, if it has ever happened to you!
 
This is an example of what I am referring to above, being prepared as much as is humanly possible, means learning how to make ahead meals and developing nap times that fit into your life’s schedule.  It isn’t always possible to meet naptime, for example, in a regulated spot, so, you must also teach baby to be adaptable.  A lesson he will use for life, not everything goes as we plan, so find a good way to work around the issue, find a good solution.
 
Later, I will talk about how to develop some of those valuable lessons we need to maintain a balanced life along our childrearing years.
 
Cheryl G Burke
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Trip: April 23, 2010 Pennsacola, FL

April 23rd, 2010

Lots of water around Pennsacola, Florida, just traveling past, so we didn’t get to visit the area to do it justice.  Florida has call boxes, for emergency assistance, a really cool idea! 

Almost to Mobile, Alabama, happy to be traveling through in the daytime, as it was so pretty at night just so few days ago!  Coming from the Northwest,  I am really appreciating such different landscapes and recreation areas.

Spending the week at Fort Myers, Florida, going to Naples, Cape Coral, Punta Gorda, really fun areas, with of course much to do about waterways!  The islands offer so much, such variation in housing and lifestyles, I guess I found that so very interesting, just thinking of the folks who reside in the different locals.

I always need to remind myself, not to wait for anyone else to smile first, or to give a great big, Howdy-Welcome, as the folks behind the eyes you look into, just may be a bit more shy than you, and will respond accordingly to your encouragement.

I found this to be so true in an RV park we spent some time at, I would attemp to make eye contact with someone, one lady in particular comes to mind, I was waiting at a park bench outside the facilities, she came out of the lady’s room, I tried to smile, she was so quick to glance my way and back, that she never even noticed my attempt.  Rick came around the corner about that time, with no idea of what had just taken place, calls out a hearty, “Good Morning”, the lady turns, has glow in her eyes and proceeds to talk with us so amicably, it made me realize, I had not gone the extra mile bring her out of her private self and into a warm conversation. 

In the scenario I tell above, the point is, thought I felt good about conversing with her, had she responded to my smile, I didn’t take it any further, leaving me with a feeling of, “Hmmm, she must not be very open to conversing!”  Wrong, quite the contrary, I had made a judgement call because I had not tried hard enough to show her that I was open to being firendly.

New reminder for me to go the extra mile to show openness for sharing and caring!

Cheryl G Burke
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Trip: Mobile, Alabama

April 20th, 2010

Wow, what a beauty!  It was great country, the beauty of a city at night overwhelmed me!  You see, as we did overnight traveling, some places we viewed at night, I am sad to say that Mobile is one of them, I placed a mental note to be certain to fly down and visit that fair city of a day light!

One very beautiful city by lights! I am always amazed on a little trip like this, how one can find so much beauty in so many different settings.  What a gorgeous country America is, I think, since I live in Oregon, that Oregon has to be the most beautiful state, dah, I know, I know, you would stand up for your home state, but I try to be unbiased!

For, living in Central Oregon, we have the beach just a couple hours away, the skiiable (if that is a word, or snow caps on which to snow skii), golf courses, boating lakes, hiking trails, biking trails, a couple hours away are the dunes for those who like to travel the dunes by vehicle!  Gorgeous sunshine appearing at least for some spot of the day so many days a year it is hard to remember, (albeit, I must admit, though we see the sunshine, we do not experience the warmth from that sun as they do in Florida to say the least).

However, when I take a little road trip and view some of the beauty I find in each state, I am reminded, I could live in many a state, or another, and feel the beautiful surroundings filling my art searching ideals!

Nevertheless, I will return to Mobile to view her beauty in the light of day, just to find out if my night time assessments were accurate!

Cheryl G Burke

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Trip: Texas

April 20th, 2010

I don’t want to leave the subject of Texas, without first adding a note about the drivers we encountered on our journey! 

The Texans have signs along their roadways that say, “Drive Friendly”, now I don’t know about  you, but by golly I find this a very appropriate idea!

Drive Friendly, now that can mean anything from allowing another auto to enter the roadway before you, to stomping on the gas and beating the other guy into the lane!  No matter, however, one way or the other, these guys have a grand thougtht, Drive Friendly!

Never one to spare the gas pedal more than any other, Rick likes to put the Lexus to the test once in a while, to make certain she can still roll as she should!  Well, let me tell you, Texas is the place to, “let her rip”, these guys know how to Rip!

Driving along, doing four miles above the speed limit, wahootie, right on our backside, a Texas car, Rick slips over into the, “Slow” lane, even though  he is approaching a slower vehicle ahead, around  the guy races, getting out of the way, allowing Rick to,  continue back into the fast lane and move away at a very respectable speed.

I think I like the idea that no one has taken on the responsibility of being the, “road cop”.  How many times do you see someone who decides it is their responsibility to slow you down, or make you change lanes to the slow lane? Road Cops, I tell yah, they are everywhere! But I might be considering that most of them have left Texas, if all of Texas travels at the same rate of travel as the folks who traveled through Texas on the twelvth and thirteenth of April 2010!

Cheryl G Burke

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Trip: Galveston, TX

April 20th, 2010

With so much fun along the way, we arrive in Galveston, TX, drive out to the beach to find the kids, playing in the ocean, the two year old is having a blast as she loves the idea of the ocean, let alone the actual thing before her very eyes!

The six month old, however cut from a different cloth, although the same mold as the two year old, is having the worst experience of his six months, wind is not his friend, as it blows his sisters golden brown, dutch boy cut hair, causing her to squeel in delight, it blows the sound of dissatisfaction from his lungs, as he weilds the bellows of unhappy hollers into the air.  Granny and Pawpaw, take hold of him cuddling his dissatisfaction close to us, as we head for the van!  Not one to be distracted easily, he continues until his Momma and all are heading in the same direction, back to the motel!

Fun in Texas!

Trip: Who Drives First

April 20th, 2010

It really isn’t a question of who drives first, of course I sit in the co-pilot seat, never fear though, I take my job very seriously, I tell  Rick as often as I feel the need, how to drive, so, I guess in a way, I drive first also! he he he!

He is as pumped as can be, so of course, as I drift off into la la land ever so often, he drives on into the night on our little fun in the sun trip!  He drives until 12:30 am, I take the wheel, alert and raring to continue to roll, I drive my five hours until 5:30 am at which time, Rick takes over again.

The fun thing about our trips so far, we don’t stop when we have a potentially fun packed time ahead!  Although we try to see fun in everything we do, we especially go for the gusto, when it comes to getting to our destination!

Trip: A New Journey Begins

April 20th, 2010

Wow, with a couple days of planning and rearranging things, this little excursion begins!  

Off at 7:30 pm, we take to the road from La Pine, Oregon heading to Houston, Texas.  What fun, a little rain, a little sun, but mostly just down right fun!  We don’t often take off and just run any more, ever notice how down to earth we grow as we grow older?  So many to-dos that we never quite feel as though we can just break away!

That’s what I love about Rick and I, we have always found it a blast to jump and run!  Oh we don’t act irresponsibly, we just meet the adventure where it begins, in the heart!

I hear so many people who have trouble reflecting on their pasts, without regret for the things they didn’t do, that I am always tickled when we just say, “You know what, it is as close as we will get, without putting strain on anyone else, we need to Just GO!”  and we do!

Trip: to the Land of the Sun

April 19th, 2010

As with any adventure, embarking after the planning is such an excitement.  With us, of course, the planning is usually very short, oh, not that we don’t consider and consider and consider, but generally, we jump at the last minute, into the pool, fully dressed and ready for whatever may come, snow rain, or swimming pool.

This adventure begins along the same line, as we cannot make plans to leave the office too far in advance, as we just never get away! 

This day, we embarked upon a journey to Florida, Fort Myers, Florida, as a matter of fact.  Rick has considered this trip for some time, he has actually been on the computer for hours at a time, looking up everything about the Florida area, that he can find, everything from homes for sale in the gulf area to homes on the Atlantic, to google earth visuals of neighborhoods. 

The opportunity arrises in the form of our Daughter and family informing us, they were taking a trip to his computer researched land of the sun!  As all orders were in order, voila, we embark on this great journey!